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I am a writer, artist, thinker, and activist. Please take a look around. I hope you find something you like.

The Sky Hurt My Bones Again

The weather gave me a flare up, and I am grumpy about it. I am writing this on a day where my chronic pain is worse than normal, or as I tell my friends, my bones are angry today.  I don’t have anything profound to say here, just an aspect of crip life that I…

Disabled at a Faire

I sold at a Renaissance Faire recently. I always love selling at events. I get to spread joy and meet people. This was no exception. It was a great event and I met a lot of people. But, as a (somewhat) visibly disabled person living in an ableist world, often people will react to my…

A year later

I got bottom surgery one year and some odd days ago. This was one of the best decisions of my life. I am in a completely different spot in my life, in large part due to my bottom surgery. I have written before here about the joy around it and touched on other aspects. As…

Blind Gender Moments

I went blind in high school. This story isn’t about that, but that is relevant (which is honestly a pretty apt analogy for being disabled—it affects everything, while most stuff  is not about it). While I was going blind, I did not really think it would lead to more school, but it did, no matter…

Voting with our words

               Let’s talk about language and how it shapes our understanding of current events. I recently read two news articles that made me very angry. As a general rule, when something on the internet makes me mad, I try not to engage with it (don’t feed the trolls, as the saying goes), but I think…

Unmasking Transness

While  I talk about my transness and my AuDHD here, everything I say below also applies to my other later diagnosed/realized disabilities. I specifically did not talk about my POTS or EDS here because while they are important, they are not an identity I relate to as much as my transness and AuDHD. AuDHD—the brain…